A bit late on my Bachelor post this week, so I’ll get right to it.
First off, I enjoyed the ‘Bachelor at 20’ special that aired on Valentine’s Day. Thanks to DVR I was able to catch up on Monday. It was fun looking back on all 20 seasons, checking in on the couples that are still together and of course we got to see the wedding of Jade and Tanner from Bachelor in Paradise! It’s cheesy I know – who would have their wedding on TV with 500 people in attendance who you probably don’t care about?? Well the answer is – a lot of people would. And if ABC is footing the bill, then why they hell not?! Anyway, I’m happy for “Janner” (that’s the disgusting name that Jade and Tanner call themselves) and I hope everything works out for them. Tanner would be pretty dumb to let Jade slip away!!! She is stunning!
Now – back to Ben’s journey! This week Ben took the remaining six ladies to the small picturesque town where he grew up in Indiana. This episode was definitely a turning point and even though most of us could probably already tell who the front runners were, well in this episode, it became more than obvious!!
I adore both Lauren B and JoJo and I loved both of their one on one dates with Ben!
Lauren B got to live a true “day in the life” of Ben when he is back home and their connection is becoming stronger than ever. I love their chemistry and their feelings seem truly genuine. I can definitely see a future for them! Lauren B even said she was in love with Ben!!
Side Note: Now that Lauren H is gone, I am going to stop calling Lauren B, Lauren B. I will now just call her Lauren.
JoJo is a close second to Lauren and could possibly even win Ben’s heart over her in the end. Ben took JoJo to Chicago where they spent the day at Wrigley Field! They played and laughed and kissed. They are very natural with each other and Ben even said he is completely himself with JoJo, more than any of the other girls. That says something. And you can’t ignore it. Beauty can fade, but in the end, we all just want someone who we can stand to be around for the next 60 years – someone who is your best friend. JoJo and Ben have potential, that’s for sure!
The three on one date was awkward! And as much of a Becca fan and supporter I am, it was plain to see that her time was coming to a close. I’m pretty sure Caila will be around for another week. But I was surprised that Ben gave Amanda the rose. I love Amanda, but I still think to myself, wow – what 26 year old man wants to take on two toddler girls in addition to their young mother?! I know that sounds mean and Amanda deserves love just like any of us do – but I’m just not sure it’ll be her in the end. And from what we see in the trailers, Ben does end up meeting her daughters, which is a very serious thing. Should he have met them if Amanda ends up not being the one?? I’m not a parent, so it’s hard to say, but I guess we’ll see!
Per my predictions last week, Emily and her immature, slightly sweet, yet gullible and airheaded self went home!! I mean – duh. Thank goodness. That’s all I have to say about that.
Sadly – Becca also went home. Her second stint on The Bachelor came to an end. I was definitely sad to see her go, but I think Ben made the right choice. He is left with the four ladies that quite frankly he has had the strongest feelings for along the way. After seven weeks of dating these girls and going into the hometown dates next week, it’s time to get serious. I am however, rooting for Becca to be in the running to be The Bachelorette! I think it’d be a great story – two failed attempts at love on The Bachelor, plus she’s a fan favorite. Let’s make her The Bachelorette – third times a charm, right?! God, I’m such a sucker for this show…
The next few weeks are gonna be good! We’re nearing the end and my gut says it’ll be between Lauren and JoJo! What do you guys think?
More to discuss next week…until then!
xo, A